Building rapport isn’t about a one-size-fits-all approach; it's an art founded on genuine understanding, mutual respect, and shared experiences. Let’s explore the four fundamental pillars that underpin this art, and see how you can employ them in client relationships.
- Empathy - ability to understand and share the feelings of another without necessarily having experienced them.
- Authenticity - about being genuine, not just in words but also in action, tone, and body language.
- Similarity - involves finding common ground, which could be shared values, interests, or experiences.
- Shared experiences - this principle focuses on the moments and experiences you create together with your client.
Cultural Sensitivity in building rapport:
- Research and Learn - understand cultural norms and values
- Active listening and open questions - avoid assumptions; ask when unsure
- Acknowledge and apologize for mistakes - mistakes happen; sincerity matters
ACTIVITY:
Item 1: If I notice a colleague seems down during a meeting, I...
- Don't bring attention to it and focus on the meeting agenda.
- Approach them after the meeting to check in privately.
- Address it subtly during a relevant discussion point, ensuring they're okay with participating.
Answer: 2
Item 2: When reaching out to a team member for collaboration, I...